Abraham Hicks Quotes on Relationships

Wisdom from beyond.

Abraham is a collective consciousness channeled by a woman named Ester Hicks. The collaboration began in the 80’s and continues today, resulting in many books, lectures and quotable statements like the ones below.  Relationships are perhaps Abraham Hick’s most covered (read: important) topic. The core of its teachings seems to be that the most important relationship a person can have is with themselves. Prioritize that relationship and all other relationships will fall into place. Not only that, but life will be more fun and rewarding. Warning: The advice offered by Abraham often contradicts mainstream society’s norms and expectations. For example, Abraham often repeats the statement that they teach people to be selfish. That said, these  quotes on relationships from Abraham Hicks are definitely worth a read. Hopefully some, if not all of them will resonate with you.



“People will love you. People will hate you. And none of it will have anything to do with you.”


“Stop asking others to be the change that you need in order to feel better. That is the freedom you are looking for.” 


The secret of the universe really is minding your own business. What we mean by that is: Don’t get so involved in the desires or beliefs of others that you cause confusion or chatter in your own vibration and compromise your own alignment.” 


Your work is to create the feeling in yourself even before you have the marriage, even before you have the money, even before you have the thing, even before you have the property.”


You will never find yourself in a point in time when the subject of relationships is not an active part of your now experience, for everything you perceive or notice or know is because of your relationship with something.”


Often, when you observe an unwanted or unpleasant experience, you believe that you are not personally a part of it, but instead a distant, dissociated, unattached observer of it; but that is never the case. Your observation of a situation – no matter how remote you believe yourself to be – makes you a co-creative partner of the experience.”


Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with Source, who actively seeks alignment with their Broader Perspective, who deliberately seeks and finds alignment with who-they-really-are, is more charismatic, more attractive, more effective, and more powerful than a group of millions who have not achieved that alignment.” 


People like you as much as you like you.”


The greatest gift you can give to another person is your own happiness.”


There is no relationship of greater importance to achieve than the relationship between you, in your physical body, right here and now, and the Soul/Source/God from which you have come. If you tend to that relationship first and foremost, you will then, and only then, have the stable footing to proceed into other relationships.”


“It is our promise to you- if you write things you appreciate in others, in life and in yourself, you will have such a dramatic change in 30 days. And if you continued for 6 months, the change will be so powerful, so strong, that others who know you will not recognize the old you.


Much of the imbalance that people feel long after they leave the immediate environment of their childhood home stems from the impossible effort of replacing their own Guidance System by seeking approval from their parents.”


Seek alignment between you and you, first, before you engage with any other. And never ask for a behavioral change from any other to use as you basis of improved emotion or perspective. There are simply too many moving parts, and you will not succeed.”


“Being happy is a very personal thing-and it really has nothing to do with anyone else.”

We hope you enjoyed these 14 Abraham Hicks quotes on relationships. If you found value in them, here  is some more great Abraham Hicks material about relationships.







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